How to Wake Up Early in the Morning

First, here is a personal story about me:

 

For years of my life, I struggled with mornings. In fact, I almost failed multiple college classes because they were at 8:00 AM. I just couldn’t get my butt out of bed, even for classes I wanted to go to! But then I got a Ph.D. in behavior change and became an expert on all things mindset, routine, and habit formation. That was like a light turning on! All of a sudden, I knew tactics that I could use to create a morning that works for me. And that is exactly what I’m going to teach you today. But, I want to start with a disclaimer: 

 

Getting up early in the morning does not make you a better person.

Why should you wake up early in the morning?

 

If you are not a morning person, you don’t have to be. But for me personally, even though I struggled with it… I knew that on the mornings that I succeeded, I had way better mental health throughout the day. So that is why I chose to pursue figuring out how to wake up early in the morning. I know some of you may be feeling the exact same way and I want to share what I learned. I hope it will help.

 

 

Waking up in the morning is hard, so today we’re going to tackle it in four different areas:

 

• • Environmental

• • Mental

• • Behavioral

• • Physical

 

Wake up early in the morning by changing your environment

 

When you first open your eyes in the morning as your alarm goes off, you desperately want to hit snooze. You can think of that version of your brain as your inner toddler. Of course, your inner toddler wants to kick and scream and rebel against your desire to get up. And that’s okay.

 

Have you noticed, though, that after a few minutes, your responsible inner adult emerges, and you can be reasonable?

 

Create a conscious thought gap

 

So your goal here is to stall your immediate instinct to resist. You just need to keep yourself awake long enough for your inner adult to come out. Then that version of your brain can take over and start to reason with your inner toddler. In order to do that, you have to create something that I call the conscious thought gap.

 

 

Conscious Thought Gap:

The time between waking up and having reasonable, responsible thoughts.

 

You can create this gap by changing your environment. This might look like:

 

• • Getting a digital alarm clock from Amazon and putting it all the way across the room.

• • Downloading an app like Alarmy that forces you to type phrases or do math problems to turn off your alarm.

• • Putting a glass of water next to you to chug and create a little bit of space.

 

What you want to do is force yourself to be awake by adjusting your environment for 2-5 minutes. During that time, you’re going to slowly work on the next step, which is adjusting your mindset and thoughts. Having that conscious thought gap in place first is the key to start making a different decision.

 

Wake up early in the morning by changing your mindset

 

Okay, so let’s say you’ve put your alarm in the bathroom. You have to get up and take several steps to turn it off. What do you do during those 30-60-seconds where you’re automatically awake, but your inner toddler is still in charge?

 

 

Well, your inner toddler brain is definitely going to present all of the reasons why you shouldn’t get up… You’re too tired… You have to go back to sleep.. You just need five more minutes.

 

Write out thought rebuttals

 

Imagine that you are a lawyer in court. Your inner toddler brain is the defendant, but your inner adult brain is the prosecutor. It’s your job to tell everyone on the jury why the defense’s argument is wrong. In my coaching program, we call this a thought rebuttal.

 

 

Thought Rebuttal

The argument you make back to your brain when your automatic thoughts are in opposition to your goals.

 

Try writing down the excuses that your brain gives you. Then, on that same piece of paper, write something that you are ready to say back to your brain. In fact, I highly recommend putting this piece of paper on top of your phone or next to your alarm. That way, when you shut off that alarm, you’ll see all the reasons you really do want to wake up early in the morning.

 

 

Let’s have a quick mindset shift moment. Something that drastically changed my experience with mornings was realizing that being tired is part of getting up. If you were outside in the cold, then entered a warm room, you’d still feel cold for a couple of minutes while you slowly warmed up. If you didn’t immediately feel warm, you wouldn’t go back outside in the cold. That doesn’t make any sense. It’s the exact same thing when you wake up. You can expect to feel tired. This is one of my favorite thought rebuttals; it really transformed the game for me. Once I normalized that being tired is part of waking up, everything got easier for me.

 

 

Being tired is part of getting up.

 

Alright, so we’ve adjusted our environment and we’ve written down our thought rebuttals. What comes next?

 

Wake up early in the morning by changing your behavior

 

Harness your intrinsic motivation

 

 

A lot of us have this perfectionistic idea of what our morning is supposed to look like. We think that we need to get up early, drink some green juice, do a pushup, take a cold shower, and meditate for an hour. But if you don’t like reading, meditating, or exercising as soon as you get up, that’s going to be a problem. If you don’t enjoy your morning routine, you’ll be motivated… to turn off your alarm and go back to sleep.

 

Design your first activity

 

My behavioral tip for you here is to design a first activity that you are truly motivated to do. When I was in graduate school, I absolutely loved watching YouTube videos. Unfortunately, I didn’t have a lot of time to watch them. So I would wake up early in the morning and watch people that I really liked and admired on YouTube. It helped my mindset for the day, and it was an easy thing for my morning brain to do.

 

 

Design a first activity that you are truly motivated to do.